No Blame by Kaylia Walker

I personally feel that it would be foolish to blame all the reasoning for sexism on one gender. I feel it is a hand in hand relationship between the two genders. See I have sat down, thought about it, and reconsidered some things to look at them in a different manner. As females we are told that a "real man" or a "gentleman" should hold the door open for you when you are walking in or pull out your seat before you sit down and as a child I remember my grandma would not dare touch a door handle if her husband was not there to get it and then her eldest grandson knew it was his job. She would often tell stories of how she would have the food all nice and hot on the table when her husband got home from work she would say "Ladies make sure that there is food on the table after work," and maybe this is the problem now we've become too dependent on men after hearing things like that or maybe men have became so proud of themselves that they cannot help but feel like women need them, and let us face the fact that us females like when the man holds the door open for us or pulls out our seat and maybe even when they take the control of things, it makes us feel all warm on the inside like we are catching butterflies for him all over again and we probably even think to ourselves "what a perfect gentleman," but what we really do not realize is some men think we can't do it for ourselves, that we need them to do it for us so at the same time their being a perfect gentleman and taking control of things we, my lovely individual female friend are simply losing our control to show them that we are independent women and although it is nice and appreciated that you take us in consideration to do a few things for us we do not need you to do everything.